had a great conversation with my wife, c.c., yesterday….. let me pause here and tell you how much i love my wife. god created something good when he thought up marriage…….
anyway….we talked about our insecurities. basically, for her they show up most often in her interpersonal relationships - the basic question is “do i matter?”. my insecurities show up most in my work - the basic question is “do i have what it takes?”.
i wonder if this goes all the way back to genesis 3 and the curse. for the woman, the curse meant trouble in relationships. “your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.” for the man, the curse meant trouble at work. “cursed is the ground because of you….painful toil…….sweat of your brow……”
Thoughts?


